It often feels like, to me, that most people have heard of and have a general understanding of ADHD, but that they don’t necessarily know what ADHD is or what it is like to have. William Dodson, MD, a psychiatrist and author posits that children who have ADHD will, by the age of 12, “receive 20,000 more negative messages from parents, teachers, and other adults than their friends and siblings who do not have ADHD.” Being one of the most common mental disorders that affects children, one would think that we would have an easier and more effective time treating individuals with ADHD. This, however, as noted by William Dodson, is often far from the truth.

What do you think of when you hear the word “therapy?” What kind of setting do you picture? Chances are high that you probably picture two individuals across from each other talking. While that can be what therapy looks like, it doesn’t always have to look like that. Group therapy can often provide certain benefits that you don’t get from individual therapy.

Spring is almost upon us here in the Northern Hemisphere, and with that means a few more sunny days and hours of sunlight, something that I’m sure a lot of us have been counting down the days for. You might have heard about seasonal depression, also sometimes referred to as the “winter blues,” but did you know that seasonal affective disorder (SAD) is something that is actually recognized in the Diagnostic Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM)?

As much as we hear that the stigma towards mental health is decreasing, it can still be really scary talking about your mental health, or even asking others about theirs. It was only until very recently that I felt nervous starting and having those conversations with the people I care about too, and sometimes, I still find myself struggling! It’s totally okay to find those kinds of conversations daunting.

Setting boundaries can be hard. How are you supposed to know what they should be? How do you let someone know what your boundaries are? In what situations should you set boundaries? These are all questions that many, many people have had; they’re questions that I have had as well.

Mental illness does not always show up the same in biological men and women. In fact, this is why men and women often go years, if not their whole lives without receiving an accurate diagnosis. Historically speaking, much of the information that we have on diagnostic criteria is based on research conducted on Caucasian, cisgendered, and heterosexual biological males. With that in mind, it makes a lot of sense that the results of that research do not necessarily apply to everyone with a certain mental illness.

Here’s a fatiguing fact: roughly 3 out of 5 Americans said that they hardly ever wake up feeling rested. Considering sleep is so integral to a healthy functioning of our body and mind, that statistic is mind-boggling! During sleep, our brains conduct important tasks that influence our mind and body’s functioning the next day. Not getting enough sleep means your brain doesn’t have enough time to do what it does best, which can lead to a number of physical health issues such as increasing risk of common infections like the cold and flu, but also of things like heart disease, stroke, and obesity.

For many, the journey to getting help can start with a conversation with a counselor, a therapist, or a social worker. For others, it begins with a visit to a doctor. For some, the first thing one might notice about their mental illness is the physical symptoms they have. Headaches, upset stomachs, insomnia, fatigue, and even pain all could potentially be signs of mental illness.

At times, everything can feel overwhelming. If you ever feel like you struggle to feel present in the moment or if you feel like you are constantly just rushing to be somewhere or do something, practicing mindfulness for even a few minutes can help to bring you back to awareness of the present. Beyond helping to manage stress, research suggests that mindfulness can even help reduce levels of anxiety and depression, alleviate pain, can aid in lessening symptoms of addiction, and can even be helpful in improving quality of life for individuals with cancer, hypertension, and other chronic illnesses. But what exactly is mindfulness?

TW: Description of Self Injury

It comes in many forms, with cutting being the most prevalent. Cutting can be superficial but sometimes can cause bleeding, scars, and the need for medical treatment. Some people self-injure through hitting themselves, with or without an object, causing bruises or other injuries.

This article isn’t necessarily about thinking positively. Instead, it’s about the concept that our subconscious minds cannot process negative statements.

A sensory processing problem is often associated with Autism Spectrum Disorder or ADHD, however it can be much broader than that. Sensory processing is a term that refers to a person’s nervous system receiving and interpreting information that is received by the senses and translating it into appropriate motor and behavioral responses.

“Tis the Season to be Jolly,” but for some people, it’s a season for stress.

The hustle and bustle of the holiday season can add an additional layer of stress to an already overworked, overscheduled, overtired person. On top of grocery shopping and meal planning, people are expected to shop for presents for family and friends and plan extravagant holiday meals.

We have a lot of people in our lives who care about us and who we care for in return. The only downside that can occur is that sometimes, we run out of time and energy to give to all of them. So, we give all that we have and don’t save any for ourselves, causing emotional anxiety, sadness, and other concerns. How do we do the best for ourselves and others in a losing situation?

Almost everyone makes them, and some people are able to work hard enough to see them through. Resolutions in the new year are a great way to accomplish changes that you are wanting to make. Having a new year as a fresh start can be really refreshing mentally and can give you that boost of motivation to get things started.

Because autism is a developmental condition, abnormal behaviors are often prevalent. This may stem from the child being unable to communicate thoughts and feelings. It could also be because they do not know how to manage those thoughts and feelings. This causes those children to either act out, scream, and become physical, or for them to become quiet, distant, and seclude themselves. Parents and therapists can work together to implement behavior modification strategies. 

Thanksgiving is about stopping and being thankful for things in one’s life. However, when someone struggles with depression, this can be difficult. When there’s little hope, no way out, so much hurt or loss, or daily tears, it can feel impossible to be thankful for anything.

“That’s it. I’ve had it.  We need counseling.” Unfortunately, many couples turn to counseling as a last-ditch effort to try to save a relationship. By the time they’re in front of a counselor, there is so much hurt, loss of respect, and even loss of love, that oftentimes it’s near impossible to recover from that state. There are too many issues often combined with a diminished motivation to put in the effort required. If more people realized that relationship counseling is more beneficial as a form of prevention, then more relationships maybe would be longer lasting. 

Intelligence is held in the highest regard in our society- something that is prized and cherished. Therefore, being identified as intellectually “gifted” is seen as something to be very proud of. However, there are special “downsides” and considerations to be had for gifted children that deserve attention and exploration. Just because a child is intelligent does not mean they will not struggle. 

I am dedicating this very personal and informal article to parents of gifted children and to other gifted adults- to share my experiences in the hopes of providing some light.